Psychological
What if perfect parenting is actually bad parenting?
A parent who anticipates every need, removes every frustration, and never lets their child struggle sounds ideal. But Winnicott argued this kind of perfection actually gets in the way of healthy development.
The good enough mother... starts off with an almost complete adaptation to her infant's needs, and as time proceeds she adapts less and less completely.— Donald Winnicott
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The thinker
Pediatrician & Psychoanalyst
Donald Winnicott (1896–1971) was a British pediatrician and psychoanalyst whose ideas about child development, particularly the 'good enough mother,' changed how we think about parenting and emotional growth.
Based on Donald Winnicott — The School of Life, summarised and reframed by Insights.
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