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How Judgment Blocks Love

Did you know that judgment isn’t about others—it’s about protecting yourself? Judgment is a defense mechanism shielding us from the parts of ourselves we don’t want to face. When you judge someone, it’s a reflection of an unresolved inner struggle. This flips the idea of judgment on its head—it’s not about them, it’s about you.

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Byron Katie is an American author and speaker known for her profound method of self-inquiry, 'The Work', which helps individuals transform their judgments and beliefs into clarity and love. She has helped millions through her books like 'Loving What Is', and workshops on questioning thoughts that lead to suffering.

Based on Loving What Is - Spotify, summarised and reframed by Insights.

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