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Split Between Pleasing and Being

From an early age, we're conditioned to fit in—at home, at work, online. The result? A disconnect between who we are and who we think we should be. Research shows that this **self-alienation** leads to more **stress**, weaker relationships, and faster burnout. If you feel like you're constantly adjusting to expectations, ask yourself: Am I making choices for me or for others? What small step can I take today to be more **me**?

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The thinker
Authenticity Psychologist

Kelly Weekers is a psychologist and bestselling author known for her work on authenticity and self-awareness. Her latest book, 'Choosing Me,' delves into the importance of living authentically and making choices aligned with one's true self.

Based on Finding Balance: Taking Care of Yourself & Others with Kelly Weekers, summarised and reframed by Insights.

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