Relational
Are you bringing your whole history into every argument?
When a small disagreement feels way too big, something else is going on. Solomon says the real conflict often lives underneath the one you're having.
The quality of our relationships can never exceed the quality of our self-understanding.— Alexandra Solomon
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Relational Psychology Expert
Alexandra Solomon is a licensed clinical psychologist at Northwestern University and author of Loving Bravely, known for her work on relational self-awareness.
Based on Alexandra Solomon: Loving Bravely — TEDxNorthwesternU, summarised and reframed by Insights.
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