Psychological
Something Cringe-Worthy
That sudden pang of secondhand shame when remembering yourself is not a failure, it is your brain updating your self-image. Growth sneaks in on the back of those awkward flashbacks, gently nudging you forward with a grimace and a grin.
Cringing at your past self is a recognition of the fact that you’re no longer that person.— Melissa Dahl
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Melissa Dahl is the author of *Cringeworthy: A Theory of Awkwardness*, where she dissects the science of secondhand embarrassment. A co-founder of NYMag’s Science of Us, she’s carved a niche in translating social science into punchy, relatable truths about the human condition.
Based on Melissa Dahl on Awkwardness | Talks at Google, summarised and reframed by Insights.
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