When Silence Becomes Punishment
Conflict is hard. In many relationships, silence becomes a go-to—mistaken for peace, or a defensive pause. Arthur C. Brooks warns us: imposed silence—even when intended to soothe—is often used as a push away. It’s not neutral—it is relational aggression riding quietly on the back of discomfort and unmet needs.
Arthur C. Brooks is a Harvard professor, bestselling author, and social scientist focused on the art and science of happiness. His research uniquely blends economics, neuroscience, and philosophy to help people cultivate a more meaningful life, especially in the second half of their careers.
Based on Arthur Brooks on Conflict and Connection — How to Build a Happy Life, summarised and reframed by Insights.
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