Relational
What if you're not bad at intimacy, just speaking the wrong language?
Two people can genuinely desire each other and still feel completely disconnected in bed. Not because the attraction faded. Because they're each turned on by fundamentally different things, and neither one knows it.
We think desire is about chemistry. But often it's about whether someone is speaking your erotic language.— Jaiya
The full breakdown — the context, the shift, and a question to sit with — opens in the Insights app.
The thinker
Somatic Sexologist & Erotic Educator
Jaiya is a somatic sexologist and creator of the Erotic Blueprint framework, which maps five distinct arousal types to help people understand their sexual wiring.
Based on Jaiya: The Erotic Blueprints | Mindvalley, summarised and reframed by Insights.
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