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Why Your Relationship Problems Aren't About Communication

Most relationship advice focuses on communication techniques and compromise. But Levine discovered something more fundamental: your attachment system - an ancient survival mechanism - is running the show behind the scenes, creating patterns you mistake for personality flaws.

In essence, we have three main attachment styles that guide us in close relationships: Secure, Anxious, and Avoidant.— Amir Levine
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Attachment Theory Researcher

Amir Levine is a psychiatrist and neuroscientist who studies adult attachment patterns and their impact on romantic relationships.

Based on Attached the Book, summarised and reframed by Insights.

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